Before I dive too deep in this blog, I want to recognize the obvious. There are many blogs out there with this same title and many are written by cucks. I’m not writing this to talk about the traits of a good man or how women need to be treated better by the male species. I’m writing this out of selfishness and anger from the fact that I don’t have many men to look up to in my life. What I will continue to write will consist of sweeping generalizations that should all be taken with a grain of salt. I do not really think there is hope for men to change. I honestly just think the weak ones need to die off so I’m just going to complain about the ones that exist and blame them for the fall of Western society. Moving on…
Where are the real men? Really? Where are the manly men in this world? I know that if you drive out of big cities, you could find some manly men here and there, but on the whole, especially in urban areas, men are pitiful. The middle-class males of today sit behind a desk and rot for another man sitting behind a desk. This is how men provide for their families. The men of today don’t know how to hunt, fish, fix cars, fix houses, fix their marriages, or raise their children. Men of this world today are extremely soft and it’s embarrassing because it weakens American society.
I’ve only been in the workforce for just a little while and I’ve met plenty of men that lack a pair of testicles. These men who are in charge of putting food on the table for their families get absolutely mowed down by confident women and douche bag, male, mid-level managers that are not qualified for the job. These pee-ons are doormats. They don’t hold any independent views or opinions in the hide behind their “collaborative” trait to avoid accountability and leadership opportunities.
In the dating world, men just a lost cause. Back in the old days, our grandfathers used to pick up girls by simply hitting on them at the laundromat. Today, flirting with girls can be viewed as sort of sexual assault. Men are so afraid to cross the line while simultaneously putting their nuts on the line. Young men don’t encourage each other to get with girls the right way either. Everything is based on swiping left and right on your phone. If a relationship begins without someone taking a risk, than what is a relationship worth anyways? Do we really expect our dream woman to fall in their laps? Why do we rely on the female empowerment movement to compensate for the areas where we lack confidence? It’s shameful.
Many of us grew up fatherless and the rest of us grew up with shitty fathers. I would argue that most of us were not raised to be real men. I find myself often hopeless when it comes to fixing things. I’m working on it and it’s a work in progress. Regardless of the lack of up a proper bringing we may have received, we still have the responsibility to evolve and become real men with or without the help. The very few men that I do look up to carry traits that they developed independently without the help of others. They learn the hard way and they never ran away from challenges. I believe this is what the men of today need to do. We need to stop whining, stop looking for validation and just nut up. Once we get it together our lives will be more fulfilling.